脆弱的力量

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Dream is not what you see in sleep. It is the thing which doesn't let you sleep.

A.P.J Abdul Kalam

今天看到了个TED Talk “Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability”,讲者讲诉了自身的经历后得出结论要接受脆弱:

  1. Let ourselves be seen, deeply seen, vulnerably seen.
  2. Love with our whole hearts, even though there is no guarantee.
  3. Practice gratitude learn into joy.
  4. Believe that we are enough.

讲者还有一个重要的论点——我们在“麻痹脆弱”(numb vulnerability)。教父说过“Never hate your enemies. It affects your judgment.”我认为是讨厌做一件事才会麻痹(拖延),喜欢做的事从来不会拖延。像上不喜欢课经常会走神,而编程有时候爽起来会编通宵。而我的一个师兄有句口头禅“讨厌做一件事是因为做不好,做好了就会喜欢了”。是不是有点悖论的味道。但是很多时候就像冬天洗冷水澡一样,“忍一下就不痛了”。正所谓凡事开头难,但只有拿起球杆打几盘才知道合不合手。

讲者还有个很有趣的定义

Blame - A way to discharge pain and discomfort.

以后想要责怪别人的时候想想这句话,把口收住。学学Vito Corleone的胸襟。

最后奉上一张图,时刻警惕,不要成为工厂刻出来的模子

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瞎扯完了,洗洗睡。

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